Marriage & Partnerships: Moving In Together
Ah, love in San Francisco. When two become one in The City, it's not just hearts that merge—it's furniture, cooking habits, and Netflix accounts too. Before you start battling over whose vintage vinyl collection stays, let’s tackle the practical side of moving in together and why this often leads to selling your beloved home.
The Why: Space. Or rather, the lack of it. Your cozy apartment with that charming view of The City's skyline might suddenly feel like a sardine can with two sets of everything. Because sharing your life should not mean sacrificing elbow room—or sanity. Selling and upsizing becomes the mission to find a space where your life together can grow, along with an obligatory guest room for those in-law visits.
And while you’re working on merging those lives, it might be smart to think about merging finances too—responsibly. (Yes, I’m talking about a prenup or co-habitation agreement if you aren’t the marrying type. Because love is real, and so is heartache.) Having a good attorney on speed dial isn’t just for breakups—it’s for safeguarding both of your futures. More on that in my next post.
The How: Navigating San Francisco’s real estate can be as thrilling and daunting as a roller coaster ride at the Wharf. First, align dreams, priorities, and that all-important budget. Is the Mission’s vibrant vibe calling your name, or is the tranquility of Noe Valley more your speed? Knowing what you both want (and what you’re willing to compromise on) is key. Pair up with a sharp San Francisco realtor who knows the market better than the back of their hand, ensuring a smooth, headache-free journey.
What’s Important: Communication—no eye-rolls here, it’s true. It’s about merging tastes and practicalities without anyone secretly sulking over losing the argument about paint colors. Your new place should be a blend of both lives, reflecting shared goals and new beginnings while making sure it feels like your retreat from the bustling City outside.
In The City, selling to merge homes is more than just unloading real estate; it’s a step towards a new life chapter in this magical city. Together, you'll build a home that echoes both your personalities amidst the iconic fog and endless possibilities.
Stay tuned for the next post in our "Selling Stories: The Why's and How's of Moving On" series—"Divorce or Breakups: Splitting the Sheets"—where we'll tackle the less sunny side of love and all the practicalities that come with it.
